Are you being lonely or being alone ?

Are you being lonely or being alone

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There is big difference between being lonely and being alone.Let’s see.
Being lonely or feeling lonely:
Even if you are in crowd you feel isolated and abandoned. It’s very unhappy state of mind.Unfortunately many of them are experiencing this.
Among many reasons few of them includes :
1) When your expectations are not met.
2) You think you are not lucky.
3) You always says to yourself with grief ‘why me’ .
4) You think no one ‘likes’ you.
5) You are constantly looking for love and affection.
6) You are blaming and doing self criticism.

Like many..

With these reasons and situations you feel isolated with the hole world.You always feel restless.You through yourself into self pity.

To deal with this try and implement below followings:

1) Recognise feeling lonely is just a state of mind.
2) Say to yourself “I am there for myself”.
3) Feel happy about your existence in this world.
4) Love yourself.
5) Spend your time with ‘you’ and listen what is the ‘cause’ for your being loneliness.
6) Like and listen  the music.
7) Appreciate yourself for your achievements.
8) Love the nature beauty.
9) Make the friendship with book's.
10) Practice ‘self parenting’.
11) If you are spiritual do prayers.

Being alone:

Enjoying solitude is an art.All wisdom people will have this gifted quality.

How to make best use of your ‘alone’ status:

1) To refresh your mind and body.
2) To think for ‘find’ a way to your problem.
3) To know who you are (wisdom starts from here)
4) It helps to improve your patience and understanding ability.
5) To have the ways to control your life issues.
6) To find your happiness.
7) To find your life purpose.
8) To get empowerment.

My dear reader , whatever your state of mind happiness should be your final destination.May you all have a happy life.