How do I know ‘what I want’
We all live with full of wants and desires.Our want itself a motivational factor. Some times we get confusion and want to have some insights to know ‘what we want’.
Yourself can find this. Let’s see how.
Un-happiness is common in human life. When we get this..
a) when we have failures.
b) When we get disappointments.
c) When we get frustrations.
If you are clearly remember your failures and disappointments means still you are carrying ‘those’ in your heart. You want to have those in your life as accomplishments.
You will come to know what you want from below points.
1) From your failures: List out your major failures that are still burning in your heart.
Something you have failured means reasons should be..
a) You did a mistake.
b) You had an un-certainty .
c) Lack of knowledge.
d) Due to your negligence.
This time you will know how not to do these mistakes.
2) From your disappointments: List out your disappointments. When we didn’t get complete results we will get disappointment. This time get all the potentialities to achieve complete success.
From the above point you will distinctly know what you want. I named it as ‘historical method’.
3) From your frustrations: when we anticipate something and if it didn’t happen we get frustration.
Before anticipating something you should ‘validate’ your wants or desires. If it’s not reliable or achievable better to drop it before it brings sadness in your peaceful life.
4) From ‘what makes you happy’ or ‘from your passion’: Everyone has their own way to have happiness in their life. What’s your passion. Go and have them in your life.
5) From your strengths: What’s your strengths list it and use it in achieving your goals or wants.
6) From your views on ‘life’: What’s your personal opinion or views on life. Even if it is not accepted by many no problem it’s your life.
7) From your life purpose: First know it and have a blessed life.
We all live with full of wants and desires.Our want itself a motivational factor. Some times we get confusion and want to have some insights to know ‘what we want’.
Yourself can find this. Let’s see how.
Un-happiness is common in human life. When we get this..
a) when we have failures.
b) When we get disappointments.
c) When we get frustrations.
If you are clearly remember your failures and disappointments means still you are carrying ‘those’ in your heart. You want to have those in your life as accomplishments.
You will come to know what you want from below points.
1) From your failures: List out your major failures that are still burning in your heart.
Something you have failured means reasons should be..
a) You did a mistake.
b) You had an un-certainty .
c) Lack of knowledge.
d) Due to your negligence.
This time you will know how not to do these mistakes.
2) From your disappointments: List out your disappointments. When we didn’t get complete results we will get disappointment. This time get all the potentialities to achieve complete success.
From the above point you will distinctly know what you want. I named it as ‘historical method’.
3) From your frustrations: when we anticipate something and if it didn’t happen we get frustration.
Before anticipating something you should ‘validate’ your wants or desires. If it’s not reliable or achievable better to drop it before it brings sadness in your peaceful life.
4) From ‘what makes you happy’ or ‘from your passion’: Everyone has their own way to have happiness in their life. What’s your passion. Go and have them in your life.
5) From your strengths: What’s your strengths list it and use it in achieving your goals or wants.
6) From your views on ‘life’: What’s your personal opinion or views on life. Even if it is not accepted by many no problem it’s your life.
7) From your life purpose: First know it and have a blessed life.
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