Sunday 1 May 2016

Which one will you choose in your life preferables or pleasurables

Which one will you choose in your life preferables or pleasurables :

In life you will have so many options to choose. How you want to live your life is in your hand. A wise one will choose high standards in everything.

 Here I categorized two options   preferables and pleasurables which one will you choose. Let me put it in this way. Assume you have diabetics and you love sweets very much. You knows that eating sweets are not good for your health .Now can you dare(choose) to eat sweets. Choose wisely what is good to you.

Anyone can choose to have pleasurables in their life and many of them will usually do. For an instance you have planned for going to morning walk but when alarm wakes you up you couldn’t  wake-up because you choose to have pleasurable(sleep).

 All pleasurables may give you a short-term ‘benefits’.But a wise soul always choose to have preferables in their life. They may not give you instant ‘pleasure’ but end results gives you abundance happiness.

Differences between preferables and pleasurables.

Preferables:

a) It gives ever lasting benefit’s.
b) Though it may tough in the beginning end results will be fruitful.
c) These are ethically standard.
d) Socially many of them accepted.
e) Needs to put big effort to have these.

Pleasurables:

a) These are enticements.
b) It gives quick pleasure , in the end you will get regret.
c) Not standards.
d) Socially and spiritually not a acceptable.
e) It will make you fickle minded.
f) You will procrastinate at everything

So,in choosing your options you need to set certain standards.

To set standard preferables:

Have a clarity while choosing .To get clarity ask and evaluate yourself with below points.

1) What I want to be: Get clarity on what you want to be. It should be realistic and achievable.
2) To do list:
In this stage you have an idea of what you want to be. To become ‘that’ or to have that status you need to do certain things.Make a list of those.It should be clear and attainable.
3) What to have :
Now you are going to take action but in order to achieve or become something you should have certain qualities and qualifications. If you don’t have make a list and pursue of those.

“Elevate yourself by your own mind not degrade yourself. The mind is the friend of the conditioned soul and his enemy as well.”
-Bhagawad gita.






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