Tuesday 8 March 2016

Depression - what we can do

Depression or Deep Sadness
Life is like a heaven when we feel happiness in everything. It’s all about how we feel and ‘see’ the things.
Depression is the medical terminology related to psychological illness.For the sufferer it’s the most pathetic emotional situation.
Reasons could be many.But common cause is ‘living in the past’ or not relieved or unresolved emotional trauma.
If we keep on remembering ‘those’ bitter experience our present happiness will disappear.If we are not relieving those frustrations from our heart it will accumulate. It will release in a deferent form.That leads us un-natural behaviour.A chemical imballance will occur in our brain.
What we can do to cope up with  this :
1) Forget and Forgive.
2) Be with your near and dear ones.Speak with them about your ‘issue’.They give best support and help.
3) Avoid the people and situations causing you feel bad.
4) Write on paper your feelings and thoughts.
5) Do meditation.
6) Visit new places and stay there for a few days.
7) Make a new hobby.
8) Learn new skill or art.
9) Learn new language.
10) Listen  to music (Avoid sad type..)
11) Attend family meetings and local gatherings.
12) Engage in social service activities.
13) Spend in beautiful and peaceful places (Gardens , riversides).
14) Live for tomorrow’s great possibility.
15) Hope is the best medicine.
16) Have healthy food.
17) Have 8 hrs of sleep.
18) Consult psychiatrist.


Tuesday 1 March 2016

Holistic Approach of decision making.

 Holistic decision making:
Change is the continuous process in life .At each stage of our life we need to take decisions. Results will depend upon how wisely we take decisions.
In Sanskrit there is saying ‘Neera-Ksheera-Viveka’
Good things are precious and happen rarely.They available mixed with some impurities like lotus in the mud.The wise ones separate good and bad things.They accept  only the good things.Like a ‘Swan’ separating milk from water.
Set clear , consistent and accountable decisions.
Be like a Swan while taking decisions.




Tuesday 16 February 2016

Make your Life alive


Balancing on Life

We may have so many doubts , confusions and difficulties.To get rid of all these we will use all resources .If we stuck at any stage we feel un happy.Few un resolved issues gives us frustrations.

Lacking of something or having of too much brings unhappy.As there is a saying 'Ati Sarvatra varjayet'.It reads One should refrain from 'too much' of anything.

Have these qualities in Life this makes you 'balanced'(happier) person.

1) Firmness :In achieving goals it will help.
2) Forgiveness :Lets go of negative emotions.
3) Self-control:Ballencing of everything.
4) To be honest:For atleast to ourseves.
5) Purity:Goodness in thought and behaviour.
6) Control over the senses:Difficult but can achieve with practice.
7) Intellect:About what we are doing.
8) Knowledge:It's continuous process.
9)Truth:The quality of being truth.
10) Absence of anger:It gives you peace.



Wednesday 10 February 2016

Power of sub-conscious mind

Life always influenced on our social , cultural , economical and personal beliefs.We always try to ballance all these.we are on the way to reach our goals and wants.Now and then we come across difficulties , un expected sorrows and failures.We have to face it with confidence and lots of hope.Self help is best help.

We can get possitive thinking from our subconscious mind.If we give it to possitive commands it will help us to get solutions to our problems.

Subconscious mind is so powerful it can make you successful.But it needs to have possitive feelings.

These are the few simple commands that we should give it to our subcinscious mind oftenly.
1) I can do this
2) I will succeed
3) I am a Lucky person
4) I am becoming much healthy
5) I deserve for this
6)This issue will turn to my favour
7) I am so happy now

We should fill with this kind of possitive commands it will work like 'Mantras'.
 There is a saying in Sanskrit 'Yad bhavam Tad bhavathi'.It reads 'As you think so you become'





Monday 8 February 2016

Envy and how to deal with this

Envy is an emotion of a person when they lack another's possessions.
Envy can burn themselves in their own flame.

Steps to deal envy in others:
1) Discover the best in them and let them know.
2) Ask them to stop comparing with 'others'.
3) Convey them how to be 'Thankful' for what they already having.
4) Explain them greatness of feeling happy in somebody's fortune.
5) Tell them to have a taste of joy in 'giving' to others.

Unfortunately few 'Great Souls'  also will have envy.May God bless them.

In 'Taittiriya Upanishad' told about mutual helping and not to envy on others.
The stanzas says:
OM , May we all be ptotected
May we all be nourished
May we work together with great energy
May our intelect be sharpened and let there be no animosity amongst us.
OM , Peace , Peace , Peace.